MIDLIFE COACHING ~ NAVIGATING LIFE TRANSITIONS ~ REDEFINING PURPOSE ~ TIME MANAGEMENT ~ STRESS MANAGEMENT ~ & BEYOND!
As someone currently in midlife myself, turning 50 in 2025, I deeply understand the transitions, challenges, and opportunities that come with this stage of life. This firsthand perspective allows me to approach midlife coaching with empathy, authenticity, and a genuine connection to what you’re going through.
What is a Midlife Coach?
As a Midlife Coach, I get to guide my clients through the transformative middle years of life, a time often marked by evolving priorities, shifting roles, and big questions about what’s next. This phase can bring a unique mix of challenges and opportunities, from balancing the dual roles of parenting and caring for aging parents to navigating career transitions or the emotional journey of becoming an empty nester. I provide compassionate support and actionable strategies to help you embrace change, rediscover your passions, and create a fulfilling future. Together, we’ll tackle the questions and uncertainties of midlife, allowing you to grow with purpose and clarity while finding joy in this new stage of life.
Because self-talk is at the core of my RESCRIPT Framework, as we work on your specific goals, we simultaneously work on helping you eliminate negative self-talk patterns and develop a positive internal dialogue. By learning and maintaining empowering self-talk strategies, you gain the most important fuel for achieving what you desire. Through our midlife coaching partnership, we help you RESCRIPT your story and author a limitless life!
When considering hiring a midlife coach, we usually have a lot of questions. Let's see if we can answer these questions for you to help you determine if midlife coaching is a good fit for you!
What Types of Things Do You Help Clients Work on as a Midlife Coach?
As a midlife coach, I provide assistance in various specific areas to ensure you thrive during your middle years. Here are some of the specific things I help with: 1. Career Growth & Transitions:
Whether you’re feeling stagnant in your current job or ready for a bold career shift, we’ll uncover what excites you and craft a path forward.
Supporting you in pursuing leadership roles, skill-building, and new opportunities to advance your career in meaningful ways.
Exploring new industries, entrepreneurial ventures, or work that aligns with your evolving values and goals.
2. Managing Dual Roles: Parenting & Caring for Aging Parents:
Balancing the demands of raising children or supporting young adult children while caring for aging parents.
Setting boundaries and developing practical strategies to manage competing responsibilities.
Finding time for self-care and maintaining your own identity amidst caregiving roles.
3. Empty Nest Adjustments:
Coping with the emotions of children leaving home and redefining your role as a parent.
Rediscovering personal passions and goals now that more time and space are available.
Reconnecting with your partner or exploring new relationships in this chapter.
4. Personal Growth & Emotional Well-Being:
Overcoming self-doubt, embracing change, and cultivating resilience.
Rediscovering who you are beyond your roles and responsibilities.
Building confidence to pursue your dreams and step into the next stage with boldness.
5. Navigating Major Life Changes:
Adapting to unexpected transitions like divorce, loss, or health challenges.
Turning uncertainty into opportunity by creating a clear vision for the future.
Establishing new habits and routines that reflect your evolving priorities.
6. Finding Purpose & Fulfillment:
Clarifying what brings meaning and joy to your life.
Setting and achieving personal and professional goals that align with your values.
Transforming this chapter into a time of growth, contribution, and deeper connection to yourself and others.
Midlife is a powerful new beginning. Whether you’re navigating career changes, balancing caregiving roles, or redefining what fulfillment means to you, I’m here to help you embrace the journey with confidence and purpose!
How Does Your Midlife Coaching Process Work?
Step 1 - ACQUAINT: We schedule a FREE 20-minute Discovery Session to get acquainted, discuss your midlife coaching needs, and answer any questions you may have.
Step 2 - ASSESS: We'll assess your level of satisfaction with each area of your life, as well as evaluate your unique self-talk patterns.
Step 3 - AIM: We'll have an in-depth discussion of your assessment results and begin setting specific short- and long-term goals based on your assessments and what we discover during our discussion so we know what destinations we are aiming for.
Step 4 - ACTION: We'll jump right in with "In-Between Session Actions" (AKA - homework ;-) customized to your needs to begin moving you into action toward your midlife coaching-related goals.
Step 5 - ACHIEVE, ADDRESS, & APPRECIATE: We'll focus our sessions on reviewing your goal achievement progress, discussing and addressing any negative self-talk that is getting in your way, positively tackling any new challenges and opportunities that arise, and CELEBRATING AND APPRECIATING YOUR SUCCESSES - the small ones along the way and big ones following your hard work!
Can You Share More About Your RESCRIPT Framework?
As a life and career coach, I've developed my own framework for helping my clients quiet negative self talk and become their own best advocates.
We have two very different mental narrators who talk to us in our minds—the Inner Antagonist and the Inner Advocate.
Your Inner Antagonist is your story’s inner opposing force. It tells you that you have disorder, conflict, weaknesses, and deficits within and around you, and that you do not have what it takes to resolve any of it. Your Inner Antagonist can also lead you to act in ways that are not aligned with your values and ultimate desires.
Your Inner Advocate has your back. It’s your inner ally, supporter, encourager, and collaborative problem solver. It tells you that you’re strong and capable. It reminds you of all the resources you have within and around you. It reminds you of the wisdom you’ve gained from life experience. It tells you that you can overcome anything. To amplify our Inner Advocate, we must RESCRIPT:
I'm your co-strategizer: Together, we come up with ideas and strategies to help you quiet your Inner Antagonist, amplify your Inner Advocate, set and take action toward your goals, achieve your dreams, and enhance your life satisfaction. I have developed over 100 exercises and worksheets to help you on your journey (no, you don't have to use ALL of them, just the ones that resonate with you!).
I'm your accountability partner: I help you remain motivated, engaged, and on track toward achieving your short- and long-term goals!
I'm your External Advocate and champion: I help you see your strengths, accomplishments, passions, and purpose so you can live your fullest, limitless life. I help encourage, empower, and motivate you, and I celebrate you and all of the steps you take towards positively changing your life.
What is My Role as a Midlife Coaching Client?
As a midlife coaching client, I ask you to:
Allow yourself to dream and believe in positive change - You CAN and WILL achieve your midlife goals!
Allow yourself to be a priority in your life - Put yourself on your list - HIGH on your list!
Do the work - Coaching requires time and effort. You are worth all of it! TOGETHER, we can achieve your dreams.
Why Should I Work with You as my Midlife Coach, Dr. Colleen?
Helping others has been my calling since I was a kid. My very first job at 14 was as a camp counselor, so it was destiny! I just genuinely love people and want to see others happy and living their most fulfilled lives. Here's a bit about my background and experience:
Providing coaching and conducting personal and career development workshops for 25+ years.
Running my coaching business for 15 of these years.
Teaching psychology, counseling, and leadership courses at Rutgers University for 15 years.
Doctorate in Counseling Psychology from Rutgers University and 30+ certificates and certifications in coaching and psychology, including certifications as a Life Coach, Career Coach, Positive Psychology Coach, Health & Nutrition Coach, Anxiety Specialist, Parent Educator, and Time Management Consultant.
Created and maintain positive daily habits and routines in my own life around my health, self-care, fun, work, productivity, relationships, and beyond.
I Think I'd Like to Work with You, Dr. Colleen - Can We Talk Before I Decide?
We sure can! In fact, I offer a FREE 20-Minute Discovery Session where we can get acquainted, discuss your coaching needs, and I can answer any questions you may have. Completing the form below will help us get started!